March 1, 2012: Going Back To Court

Since January 4, all I could think about was going back to court to get the results stating the obvious that Cydney was mine. For my new readers, after my fiance Timile died, I had to go the legal route to get my daughter back from her grandparents who were trying to adopt her behind […]

The Days After Cydney Came

I couldn’t wait to wake up the next morning after Cydney was born. I got a text from Timile saying “Hey, daddy” and that just made my world. I put on a pink shirt thinking I can’t be at the hospital all day because I have to get it ready for Cydney and Timile coming […]

February 14, 2011: God and Cydney Had Other Plans (Extended Version)

Most of this comes from a note that I wrote last year on Facebook: Cydney Moriah Milner wasn’t supposed to be born on Valentine’s Day. Her due date was March 7, and Timile was considered full term in her pregnancy as of that day at 37 weeks and one day. However, one thing that I’ve […]

The False Alarm: A Retrospective Piece

February 11, 2011: For the most part was just like any other day. Timile was getting closer and closer to her due date of 3/7 and was more than ready for this pregnancy thing to be over. She was uncomfortable, irritable, and could hardly keep any food down. She couldn’t wait until our doctor’s appointment on […]

The Saga Continues: Court On Timile’s Birthday

For those who are just joining in on the adventure, here is the links to the story of my last month with my fiance Timile and what ensued after in the effort to get my daughter Cydney back. The Final Chapter Pts 1-7 The Saga Continues: Pt. 1 The Saga Continues Pt 2 Now that […]

The Saga Continues: The Funeral We Were Not Invited To

Today its been a year since my fiance Timile Brown was laid to rest. I didn’t really think about it until yesterday afternoon. I was rummaging through the library of music on my studio computer and I found this song I made for her at the very beginning of our relationship. I thought about the […]

The Next Saga: Gloves Off

For all new readers, here is a link to the previous part of my story in losing my fiance and all that went on:, The Last Chapter Parts 1-7 The days after Timile passed away were interesting. While I was upset that I lost my partner I seemed to have spent more of my time […]

The Last Chapter: Something In The Air

Part 1 Part 2 Part 3 Part 4 Part 5 Being back home I wasn’t too much in a funk, but more or less a planning mode. I was in the middle of making contacts to try to get a job with great benefits as well as getting my paperwork together to be a security […]

The Last Chapter: The Goodbye That Never Happened

First: for those who are new to the story here are the first three parts to the story. Part 1 Part 2 Part 3 Second: In no way is any of this an exaggeration. This is EXACTLY what happened. With that said, here we go. I last left off stating that things had got very […]

The Last Chapter: Virginia Pt. 3

I’ve been writing these on Thursdays the last couple of weeks but the next few will actually be posted on the days that major events took place. Last time we talked about the shit storm a brewing in the Hampton Roads area. So it goes a little something like this: Backtracking to conversations with my […]